Submissive Day Collar – Gold BDSM O-Ring Necklace with Milky Blue Heart
This submissive day collar is designed as a tender symbol of connection, devotion, and belonging. Elegant and discreet, it blends soft romance with classic BDSM-inspired details, making it perfect for everyday symbolism or intentional moments of ownership.
At the center is a polished gold-plated O-ring accented with delicate chainmaille, holding a sterling silver heart set with a milky blue CZ stone. The gentle glow of the heart adds a dreamy, affectionate touch—sweet, meaningful, and unmistakably submissive.
Finished on a gold plated paperclip chain, this collar balances modern style with emotional significance. Each piece is carefully packaged and ready for gift giving, making it a thoughtful surprise for your sub or a cherished reminder of your dynamic.
Details:
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Submissive day collar / BDSM O-ring necklace
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Gold plated paperclip chain
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Gold plated 18mm O-ring with chainmaille accent
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Sterling silver heart with milky blue CZ stone
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Packaged ready for gift giving
A beautiful collar for your sub—soft, symbolic, and full of intention.
We craft our Captive™️ Lock ensuring transparency in the materials used. Additionally, we create the accessories that complement these locks, maintaining control over the entire production process.
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Captive™ Lock- *Stainless Steel *Keys *24/7 Wear
This is our best lock, expertly crafted by us to be durable, stylish, and user-friendly. It securely fastens and releases with a key.
Captive™ Forever Locks- *Sterling Silver *24/7 Wear
This lock is a single-use item. Once locked, it cannot be removed without cutting it. We include two locks for your convenience. Perfect for those who want to keep their jewelry secure and prefer a lightweight option. Only comes in silver.
Hex Lock- *Silver Plated Brass and Stainless Steel - Medium strength lock fastens with a key, two keys included. Plating may diminish, revealing the brass underneath. Those with sensitive skin may find this irritating; we highly recommend the Captive™️ Lock as an excellent alternative, made of stainless steel which is hypoallergenic and retains its glossy silver hue.
How to Measure Your Neck for a Necklace
Finding the perfect necklace fit can elevate your style and comfort, whether you’re selecting a casual piece or a special day collar. Here’s a step-by-step guide to accurately measure your neck so your necklace sits exactly where you want it.
1. Gather What You Need
To measure your neck, you’ll need:
- A soft, flexible measuring tape (fabric tape works best)
- A mirror (optional, but helpful for seeing the fit)
- A string and ruler if you don’t have a measuring tape
2. Find Your Neck Measurement
- Wrap the measuring tape snugly around your neck, right at the base. This is typically right above your collarbone. Make sure the tape sits comfortably, without pulling too tight.
- Record the measurement where the tape meets. This number is your neck’s circumference.
If you’re using a string:
- Wrap the string around your neck in the same spot.
- Mark where the end meets.
- Lay the string flat against a ruler to measure the length.
3. Add Length for Desired Necklace Fit
Use your neck measurement as a starting point, then add length to determine where you’d like the necklace to sit:
- Choker Fit: Add 1-2 inches to your neck measurement for a close, comfortable fit.
- Standard Collar Fit: For day collars and discreet pieces, add about 2-3 inches to your neck measurement.
- Pendant or Lariat Style: Adding 3-5 inches or more will create a looser, longer style that falls at your collarbone or lower.
We make our items measurement end to end including the clasp/ lock. We allow .25" allowance in measurement. If you have questions about what size to order don't hesitate to reach out. sales@captivecollars.com
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All orders are custom-handmade to order at the time of purchase. Because each item is made to order and for hygiene and safety reasons, we do not accept resizes, exchanges, returns, cancellations, or give refunds. This policy is clearly stated in our Terms of Service, Sizing Guide, FAQs, Refund Policy, and Order Confirmation. Please carefully review sizing information and product details before placing your order.